Sisters of Grace

If I asked you to look in the mirror and tell me what you see, you would probably describe your physical attributes. Perhaps the color of your eyes, the dimple or mole that make you uniquely you. We all are very outward appearance focused but what if we could show others our true selves.

How beautiful it would be to truly understand a person, and what things that make them who they are today. We are a combination of the things that have happened to us and through us. The most insignificant moments have shaped who we have become. Many times people will want you to separate yourself from the things that have happened to you as some sort of defense mechanism. The impression that we will heal if we don’t allow those things to take root.

However, I think it’s important to embrace the things that have shaped our worldview. Yes, trauma and suffering are not comfortable topics to share or remember but they happened and affected us regardless. The best thing we can learn is to use them to empathize, empower and help others. The phrase we often hear: “I don’t look like what I have been through” What if you did? What if our scars we hide were more visible on the outside? How would that change the way we are treated? More importantly how would that satisfy the need to hide our pain?

Look in the mirror, tell me who you really are because I cannot see the real you. Don’t hide and feel shame for our weaknesses. The savior Jesus, died for those very things! Strength comes from enduring through those hard places. Jesus went to the cross and when he arose he willingly showed his scars to the disciples. He wanted them to see the pain inflicted upon him, not for them to feel sorry! He wanted them to understand the kind of love that is willing to take pain for a greater good!

In John chapter 12, Jesus proves that he indeed is the risen Christ, not by doing magic tricks but by showing that he has the victory over what was meant to destroy him! His glory in his suffering is a reflection, that God left the scars. He rose with all power and yet the scars remain! My friend you may have scars, the smile you wear may not be how you really feel but don’t be ashamed! Your scars are a what you have overcome and walked through.

Let them talk, let them stare, my scars a reminder of all that my God has brought me through!